The Engrossed Resident Doctor

For Non-Medicos & Doctors outside India: The doctors in India after completing their basic qualification of MBBS has to appear in the Pre-PG entrance exam to get admission in various post-graduate course for higher medical education. They are allotted the different specialty branches and colleges depending on their score in this exam. Due to the shortage of PG courses seats as compared to the number of MBBS seats there is a tough competition with some doctors forced to appear for two to three years before getting their preferred PG specialty course in a good medical college, with AIIMS, New Delhi the choice of most toppers.

Dr. Jolting (fictional name) was walking down the hospital’s corridor. He spotted one of his junior resident doctors talking to a female resident doctor from another department at the end of the corridor. That junior resident had joined the surgery department on his third attempt at Pre-PG entrance exams. Dr. Jolting expected the junior resident to greet him on seeing him. The junior resident was so engrossed in talking with his female colleague that he did not notice Dr. Jolting even when he was just a few inches from him. Dr. Jolting kept on walking and walked past the resident doctor without disturbing him in his tête-à-tête.

The next day, when he met the junior resident in the ward, Dr. Jolting recounted what had occurred yesterday and jokingly remarked, “If you had studied for the Pre-PG entrance exam with even half the concentration with which you talk to females, you would have easily got admission to AIIMS, New Delhi in the first attempt.”

At your workplace, be aware of who is nearby, even when engaged in otherwise pleasant social activities. Your boss or senior colleagues may take offense if you do not greet or acknowledge them when they are in your vicinity. 

Be observant is not just necessary for juniors but also for seniors. To know more read https://agnipathdoctors.blogspot.com/2021/07/the-nonchalant-observant-walk.html

— ND

(Based on allegedly true incident.)

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The Cognizant Gift Giver

 

Holiday Season Special: Christmas is around the corner and it will bring with it the western world’s largest gift-giving season.

In India, it is usual to give ‘Mithai’ the traditional Indian sweets as a gift at times of festivals, on accomplishing something to express gratitude or happiness. Rich in sugar, giving ‘mithai’ symbolizes spreading sweetness in the recipient’s life.

Dr. Dev (fictional name) was sitting in his office when one of the junior resident doctors working in their department, came with a packet of ‘mithai’ or sweets. He had just finished and submitted his thesis. The junior resident doctor presented Dr. Dev with a box of ‘Kaju Katli’, an Indian sweet made with Cashews (Kaju in Hindi).

Dr. Dev took one piece from the box, congratulated the resident doctor on the successful completion of his thesis, and thanked him profusely. Then Dr. Dev gave the box of sweets back to him and asked him to take back the box and distribute the sweets in the hospital ward.

Once the resident doctor had left with the box sweets, Dr. AK (fictional name), who was also a junior resident in the surgery department, and was sitting along with Dr. Dev, asked, ‘Sir, why did you return the box of sweets to the resident who had bought the full box to give it to you?’

Dr. Dev replied, “Dear AK, it is conventional to distribute and give the gift of sweets/mithai to express happiness and gratitude, but the resident who had bought the sweets had not kept a few points in his mind:

Due to diabetes and fear of obesity many persons had given up eating sugary sweets and ‘mithai’. One piece is all they can safely eat. Now, instead of sweets if he had gifted dry fruits like fried Cashew nuts that would have been another matter. You can eat them without fear of raising your blood sugar even with diabetes. Also, these sweets or ‘mithai’ gets spoilt fast, so you cannot store them and eat them in small portions over a few days like dry fruits, chocolates, cookies, etc.” 

“Secondly, he had chosen ‘Kaju Katli’. I don’t know the fascination with this particular sweet in the medico’s circle including pharma company sales representatives. I, like many of my doctor acquaintances, receive this ‘Kaju Katli’ so many times that many of us have become sick and tired of it due to so much over-exposure. Many of my doctor friends when they receive a ‘Kaju Katli’ box, bought even from the best shops, don't even open it and taste even a single piece but pass it on, unopened, to their other friends and helpers. Even those who eat sweets or ‘mithai’ prefer a variety of sweets other than ‘Kaju Katli’ all the time. Many prefer to receive even less expensive sweets than the banal ‘Kaju Katli’. But alas, people stick to convention and do not think creatively while choosing the gift for others.”

“Thirdly, as he had gifted the sweets in my office in my official capacity, it is appropriate that I distribute them here in the hospital itself in my official working place. If he had given the gift at my house, then I would have considered it as more of a personal gift.”

A few months later, one evening, Dr. AK came to Dr. Dev’s house. Dr. Dev asked about the purpose of his visit. Dr. AK replied that he had completed his thesis and had come to pay homage to him for his help and guidance in completing this arduous task. Opening his duffle bag he removed and presented Dr. Dev with a gift-wrapped box from a very famous sweets/mithai shop in the city.

Dr. Dev thanked him and said that these sweets are not necessary as simple thanks are sufficient. At his insistence, Dr. Dev accepted the box while feeling inwardly dismayed that Dr. AK had spent so much money in buying the sweets from such an expensive shop but I will be eating only one or two pieces from it and the rest of it will go waste.

Dr. Dev kept the box aside but Dr. AK insisted that he open the box. When Dr. Dev opened the box, he was surprised to find that box was filled with salted fried cashew nuts instead of sweets or mithai.

Dr. Dev was impressed. Dr. Dev had forgotten his talk with Dr. AK, which had occurred long back. However, Dr. AK had remembered Dr. Dev’s preference and chosen his gift accordingly without paying heed to the convention of giving sweets on such occasions.

When you give a gift or present to someone choose it based on the receivers’ personal preferences and taste, especially health-related issues, instead of blindly following the convention or commonly accepted norms.

Also, keep in mind the person’s social and cultural milieu while choosing a gift.

When you give a gift to someone, they will act pleased out of courtesy, no matter what is their inner feeling. So to get a good idea of their likes and preferences observe them in their day-to-day life that what do they prefer. Observe them when others give a gift to them and especially afterward.

Be a cognizant gift giver rather than a blind convention follower.

— ND

(Based on allegedly true incident.)

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Tit-Bits — There is an increasing demand for dry fruits and nuts for corporate gifting in India. The dry fruit and nuts sales in India are estimated to be around $2 billion or INR 16000 Crore. India is number one in cashew consumption in the world.

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The Waiter Management

 

At a surgeon’s conference, after the day jam-packed with academic activities, the surgeons gathered to enjoy a few moments of relaxation and bonding with each other over a few solid and liquid refreshments, accompanied by a live cultural program. There were round tables on the lawn to sit around and waiters were circulating with plates loaded with snacks to distribute to the doctors sitting at the tables and standing in groups on the lawn.

The head of the department (HOD) of surgery and other senior doctors sat at a table and started partaking in the tasty tidbits while sipping their drinks. The snack plates soon become empty. The HOD asked the junior resident standing nearby to arrange for some more tidbits to munch along with the drinks.

The junior resident waved towards one of the fast-moving waiters circulating the ground with trays loaded with hot delicacies. The waiter without paying attention to them continued his circumambulation around the ground distributing his appetizers to doctors standing on the ground. The junior resident gestured to another waiter passing nearby and was successful in getting him to stop at their table. The waiter hurriedly served a few pieces from his tray and swiftly departed with his tray still filled with delectable morsels, to circulate and distribute around the ground.

Exasperated, the junior resident applied his brain to think of some solution to this problem. When another waiter passed near their table, the junior resident stopped him, thrust a Rs 50 note (around $ 1) in his hand, and asked him to please pay attention to the HOD’s table. The waiter was surprised as in such a gathering only the organizers pay a tip collectively to the entire serving staff at the end of the banquet. The waiter emptied his entire tray at their table and left for the kitchen. Soon, he was back with his tray loaded with a wide variety of snacks, which he again emptied at their table.

The waiter will come first to their table, serve them and only go onwards after they had their fill. This continued for more than an hour. Then the enthusiasm of the waiter started waning. Sensing this the junior resident gave him another tip of Rs 50 (~ $ 1) note and asked to him not stop and keep on serving his HOD and professors with dedication. This second tip served as a booster dose with a lasting effect and the waiter kept on serving them almost exclusively for the remaining evening.

This is an example of micro-management seen at the banquet dinner. Good managers or people who can manage other people are always in great demand. This is true even for the medical field and even at the level of junior residency.

Tips are usually given at the end after someone renders good service, but giving tip at the beginning can sometimes work wonders especially if it is supplemented with a booster dose.

— ND

(Based on allegedly true incident.)

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